Adam’s passion is bringing people together. The more we know about ourselves, the more we can be with others. Adam is known for creating an atmosphere of permission and combining it with humour to help people drop into and explore new parts of themselves. He is a champion of intimacy and human connection.

Over the last 15 years Adam has been exploring sexuality, performance, ritual, theatre, relationships and brings diverse experience to his work. In 2012 he started Shhh Dating – a speed dating company where talking is replaced by eye gazing and non-verbal connection games. His performance work led him to create Clowning in Nature with Philip Burgers. In 2017 Adam Wilder put on the world’s first festival of authentic human connection at the top of a skyscraper in Canary Wharf. Since then Togetherness has been designing learning experiences open to everyone no matter their age, sexuality, political beliefs, profession or religion (or anything else). https://www.togetherness.com

Adam considers himself an eternal student and continues to study sexuality, relationships, gender, meditation and ritual. He shares his experience through workshops, events and retreats. https://www.wilderintimacy.com